Matter of fact Quote by Erich Maria Remarque
““Mark this one thing my boy: never, never, never can a man make himself ridiculous in the eyes of a woman by anything he may do on her account. Not even by the most childish performances. Do anything you like, stand on your head, talk the most utter twaddle, swank like a peacock, sing under her window - anything at all but one thing: don't be matter of fact, don't be sensible.””
About This Quote
Source Book: All Quiet on the Western Front, 1929
A man should never try to impress a woman by acting foolishly; authenticity matters more than theatrics.
In simple terms: Never act silly to impress a woman.
Key Takeaway
Be genuine, not ridiculous.
Themes
authenticity
relationships
gender dynamics
Mood
playful
thoughtful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- courtship
- social gatherings
- personal interactions
Key Concepts
social expectations
self-presentation
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you stay true to yourself while courting?
- When does humor become counterproductive?
A Different Perspective
Being overly serious can also alienate; balance is key.
