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Fear Quote by Erich Fromm

“We substitute, or we rather hide, this fear of real intimacy by a superficial kind of friendliness, which is quite nice, but nevertheless, very shallow.” quote by Erich Fromm
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“We substitute, or we rather hide, this fear of real intimacy by a superficial kind of friendliness, which is quite nice, but nevertheless, very shallow.”

Erich Fromm

About This Quote

Source Book: "The Art of Loving", 1956

Superficial friendliness masks a deeper fear of genuine intimacy, resulting in shallow connections.

In simple terms: We hide fear of intimacy with shallow friendliness.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate authentic, vulnerable relationships.

Themes

intimacy authenticity fear

Mood

introspective hopeful

Type

psychological relationship

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • romantic partnership
  • therapy
  • mindful listening

Key Concepts

psychological defense emotional depth

Questions to Reflect On

  • What fears prevent you from being vulnerable?
  • How can you practice deeper connection?
A Different Perspective

True intimacy requires risk and may cause discomfort.

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