Assumption Quote by Erich Fromm
“The third error leading to the assumption that there is nothing to be learned about love lies in the confusion between the initial experience of ‘falling’ in love, and the permanent state of being in love, or as we might better say, of ‘standing’ in love.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm, 1956
Love is often mistaken for the initial excitement of falling in love, rather than the lasting, steady state of truly being in love.
In simple terms: Confusing falling in love with lasting love.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate steady, enduring love beyond initial passion.
Themes
love
relationships
growth
misconception
Mood
thoughtful
inspirational
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- long‑term partnership
- friendship
- self‑love
Key Concepts
psychology
human needs
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you nurture lasting love?
- What practices sustain love beyond excitement?
A Different Perspective
Initial passion fades, requiring deeper commitment.
