Coupling Quote by Erica Jong
“Coupling doesn't always have to do with sex ... Two people holding each other up like flying buttresses. Two people depending on each other and babying each other and defending each other against the world outside. Sometimes it was worth all the disadvantages of marriage just to have that: one friend in an indifferent world.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Fear of Flying, Erica Jong, 1973
A deep partnership can provide emotional support and solidarity, feeling like a steadfast friend amid a hostile world.
In simple terms: Strong friendship can replace romantic expectations.
Key Takeaway
Seek and cherish supportive friendships.
Themes
friendship
support
partnership
marriage
solitude
Mood
reflective
hopeful
intimate
Type
philosophical
relational
When to use this quote
- navigating loneliness
- building trust
- defending against external pressures
Key Concepts
emotional interdependence
mutual defense
companionship
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance independence with reliance on a friend?
- What qualities make a friendship feel like a sanctuary?
A Different Perspective
Such bonds may not replace romantic intimacy for everyone.
