Confused love Quote by Erdem Gezer
“When I love somebody then she looks like perfect to me.And then I think everybody must love her because of she is perfect.So that's why she is inaccessible for me.But it is even good for me I can see her.”
About This Quote
Source Blog post: Personal Reflections on Unattainable Love, 2020
Idealizing a lover makes them seem perfect and distant, yet this fantasy can provide comfort despite inaccessibility.
In simple terms: Idealizing love creates distance but offers comfort.
Recognize fantasy versus reality.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- self‑reflection
- creative writing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does idealization hide?
- How can you balance fantasy and reality?
May prevent forming real connections.