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Confused love Quote by Erdem Gezer

“When I love somebody then she looks like perfect to me.And then I think everybody must love her because of she is perfect.So that's why she is inaccessible for me.But it is even good for me I can see her.” quote by Erdem Gezer
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“When I love somebody then she looks like perfect to me.And then I think everybody must love her because of she is perfect.So that's why she is inaccessible for me.But it is even good for me I can see her.”

Erdem Gezer

About This Quote

Source Blog post: Personal Reflections on Unattainable Love, 2020

Idealizing a lover makes them seem perfect and distant, yet this fantasy can provide comfort despite inaccessibility.

In simple terms: Idealizing love creates distance but offers comfort.

Key Takeaway

Recognize fantasy versus reality.

Themes

love idealization loneliness

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

personal philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • self‑reflection
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

psychology attachment fantasy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does idealization hide?
  • How can you balance fantasy and reality?
A Different Perspective

May prevent forming real connections.

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