Better Quote by Emily V. Gordon
“Sometimes we are much better at judging people based on how they treat everyone other than ourselves. We make a million excuses for why they treat us how they do.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Podcast episode with Emily V. Gordon, 2022
People often judge others by how they treat us, ignoring how they treat everyone else, leading to biased excuses.
In simple terms: We judge based on personal treatment, not overall behavior.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and evaluate behavior toward all, not just yourself.
Themes
bias
judgment
empathy
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
analytical
self‑awareness
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- team dynamics
- leadership
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
social perception
self‑interest
Questions to Reflect On
- How might your view change if you considered how they treat others?
- What excuses do you make for unfair treatment?
A Different Perspective
Bias can blind us to broader patterns of behavior.
