Fall out of love Quote by Emily Giffin
““I wonder why I miss her and Dex does not. Perhaps it is because I've known her so much longer. Or maybe it's the very nature of a friendship versus an intimate relationship. When you are in a relationship, you are aware that it might end. You grow apart, find someone else, simply fall out of love. But a friendship isn't a zero-sum game, and as such, you assume it will last forever, especially an old friendship. You take its permanence for granted, which might be the very thing so dear about it.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “Something Borrowed” by Emily Giffin, 2004
The quote reflects on how friendships feel more permanent than romantic relationships because we assume they will endure, while love is seen as temporary and vulnerable to change.
In simple terms: Friendships seem endless, love feels fragile.
Key Takeaway
Cherish friendships, but stay realistic about love.
Themes
friendship
romance
expectations
impermanence
trust
Mood
reflective
nostalgic
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
observational
emotional
When to use this quote
- long‑term friendships
- new romantic relationships
- breakups
- reconciling past and present
Key Concepts
attachment theory
relationship dynamics
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you treat friends as unchanging?
- How does this belief affect your romantic choices?
A Different Perspective
Friendships can also fade; assuming permanence may cause disappointment.
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