Child Quote by Ellen Notbohm
““If you’re treading quicksand in the swamp of what-might- have-been, you can be sure that’s the message your child gets. You’re a rare person if being constantly reminded of your shortcomings spurs you to improve. For the rest of us, it’s a self-esteem squasher. Time to grab for that overhead vine and realize that only a pencil dot separates “bitter” and “better.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Leadership Podcast, Ellen Notbohm, 2020
Self‑criticism can motivate improvement for some, but for many it erodes confidence; balance feedback with support.
In simple terms: Feedback can help or hurt self‑esteem.
Key Takeaway
Give constructive, encouraging feedback.
Themes
self‑esteem
motivation
feedback
growth
Mood
cautious
supportive
Type
coaching
motivational
When to use this quote
- team management
- parenting
- personal development
Key Concepts
Psychology of self‑concept
behavioral change
coaching
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we give feedback that empowers?
- When does critique become harmful?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on criticism can demotivate.
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