Addict Quote by Ellen Hopkins
“Too many people believe they can control their drug of choice. But the drug is almost always in control. If an addict truly wants help, it is available, but it is a rocky path. The monster always calls. Never give an addict money. Clothe them. Feed them. But enabling them is the quickest path to watching them fade away completely. This may seem harsh. But I've watched my own child relapse, after six years sober. I love her. Always. But I can't help her die.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Personal testimony on addiction, 2020
Addiction often controls the user; well‑meaning aid can unintentionally enable continued decline.
In simple terms: Addiction is hard to control.
Avoid enabling harmful behavior.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family support
- rehabilitation programs
- financial assistance
- housing
- healthcare
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can one help without enabling?
- What boundaries protect both helper and addict?
Enabling may perpetuate dependence.