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Body Quote by Ellen Hopkins

“Don't bother Me with promises. Vows are cheaply manufactured, come with no guarantees. Don't bother to say you love me. The word is indefinable. Joy to some, heartbreak to others, depending on circumstance. There is evidence that the emotion can make a person live longer, evidence it can kill you…” quote by Ellen Hopkins
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“Don't bother Me with promises. Vows are cheaply manufactured, come with no guarantees. Don't bother to say you love me. The word is indefinable. Joy to some, heartbreak to others, depending on circumstance. There is evidence that the emotion can make a person live longer, evidence it can kill you early. I think it's akin to a deadly disease. Or at least some exotic fever. Catch it, and you'd better, quick, swallow some medication to use as a weapon against the fire ravaging body and soul.”

Ellen Hopkins

About This Quote

Source Book: Crank, Ellen Hopkins, 2004

Promises and vows are cheap, love words are vague, and love can both heal and harm depending on context.

In simple terms: Love is powerful but unpredictable.

Key Takeaway

Treat love with care and awareness.

Themes

love risk emotion health vulnerability

Mood

conflicted reflective

Type

cautionary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • family bonds
  • personal healing
  • stress management

Key Concepts

psychology relationship dynamics biopsychosocial effects

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you protect yourself when love feels dangerous?
  • Can love be both a cure and a poison?
A Different Perspective

Love may not always bring positive outcomes and can be harmful if unexamined.

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