Best friend Quote by Ellen Fein
““Separate vacations have become more popular among married couples. We don’t think this is a good idea. Over time, doing your own thing will cause you to lead separate lives. We are not talking about a three-day trip to Florida with your sister or best friend—if you want to take small trips like this, feel free to. But if you want to take a major vacation—say, to spend two weeks in Europe—your husband should be your travel companion. But suppose your idea of a fun vacation is going to Europe or lying on the beach in the Caribbean, while your husband loves tours of historic sites and museums. Our advice is to figure out a way to do a little of both. One year, you can go to the beach, the next year you can do a tourist package together, or go on a trip with a beach near some sites of cultural interest. Once you start planning separate vacations, you become like roommates, not lovers.””
About This Quote
Couples should balance shared and individual travel to maintain intimacy and avoid drifting apart.
In simple terms: Travel together, but also allow personal trips.
Key Takeaway
Plan joint and solo trips to keep connection alive.
Themes
marriage
travel
balance
relationship
communication
Mood
thoughtful
balanced
Type
advice
relationship
When to use this quote
- vacation planning
- relationship counseling
- family trips
Key Concepts
shared experiences
personal growth
Questions to Reflect On
- How can couples negotiate travel preferences?
- What benefits do solo trips bring?
A Different Perspective
Too much emphasis on joint trips can feel restrictive.
