Skip to content

Love Quote by Elizabeth Gilbert

“When the dust has settled years later, we might ask ourselves, “What was I thinking?” and the answer is usually: You weren’t. Psychologists call that state of deluded madness “narcissistic love.” I call it “my twenties.” quote by Elizabeth Gilbert
Download Open image
““When the dust has settled years later, we might ask ourselves, “What was I thinking?” and the answer is usually: You weren’t. Psychologists call that state of deluded madness “narcissistic love.” I call it “my twenties.””

Elizabeth Gilbert

About This Quote

Source Book: Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert, 2006

Reflecting on youthful impulsivity, we recognize past reckless decisions as misguided love.

In simple terms: Youthful mistakes feel like love but are often delusion.

Key Takeaway

Learn from past impulsive choices.

Themes

youth impulsivity reflection love

Mood

nostalgic reflective

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • college years
  • early career
  • relationships
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

psychology nostalgia self‑awareness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What “my twenties” moments still influence you?
  • How can you reframe past delusions?
A Different Perspective

Romanticizing past errors can prevent growth.

3.8 out of 5 (9 ratings)

More by Elizabeth Gilbert

Explore all 1,156 Elizabeth Gilbert quotes

More Love quotes

Browse all 233,963 Love quotes