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“He asks me which of them two I liked best. Perhaps I liked Mr. Harry Carson once--I don't know--I've forgotten; but I loved James Wilson, that's now on trial, above what tongue can tell--above all else on earth put together; and I love him now better than ever, though he has never known a word of…” quote by Elizabeth Gaskell
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““He asks me which of them two I liked best. Perhaps I liked Mr. Harry Carson once--I don't know--I've forgotten; but I loved James Wilson, that's now on trial, above what tongue can tell--above all else on earth put together; and I love him now better than ever, though he has never known a word of it till this minute... I never found out how dearly I loved another till one day, when James Wilson asked me to marry him, and I was very hard and sharp in my answer (for indeed, sir, I'd a deal to bear just then), and he took me at my word and left me; and from that day to this I've never spoken a word to him, or set eyes on him; though I'd fain have done so, to try and show him we had both been too hasty; for he'd not been gone out of my sight above a minute before I knew I loved--far above my life," said she, dropping her voice as she came to this second confession of the strength of her attachment. "But, if the gentleman asks me which I loved the best, I make answer, I was flattered by Mr. Carson, and pleased with his flattery; but James Wilson, I"-- She covered her face with her hands, to hide the burning scarlet blushes, which even dyed her fingers.””

Elizabeth Gaskell

About This Quote

Source Novel: Mary Barton by Elizabeth Gaskell, 1848

A woman reflects on deep, unspoken love and the pain of missed opportunities.

In simple terms: Unexpressed love can haunt a lifetime.

Key Takeaway

Speak your feelings before it's too late.

Themes

love regret memory

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • marriage proposals
  • confessions
  • personal narratives

Key Concepts

unrequited love self‑reflection

Questions to Reflect On

  • What holds us back from expressing love?
  • How can we reconcile past regrets?
A Different Perspective

May romanticify emotional turmoil.

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