Approbation Quote by Elizabeth Day
““Like many young women, I mistakenly thought that the best way of feeling better about myself was to get other people to like me and to attempt to survive on the fumes of their approbation””
About This Quote
The speaker reflects on the mistaken belief that external validation from others is the key to self‑esteem, realizing that true confidence must come from within rather than from others' approval.
In simple terms: Self‑esteem depends on internal validation, not others' approval.
Key Takeaway
Self‑worth is internal.
Themes
self‑esteem
validation
confidence
personal growth
social influence
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
introspective
Type
personal insight
philosophical
When to use this quote
- seeking approval in relationships
- career advancement through praise
- social media validation
- new romantic relationships
Key Concepts
self‑perception
external validation
inner confidence
Practical Applications
- personal development coaching
- mental‑health therapy
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you cultivate internal validation?
- What habits reinforce reliance on external approval?
