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Articulation Quote by Edwin H Friedman

“Communication does not depend on syntax, or eloquence, or rhetoric, or articulation but on the emotional context in which the message is being heard. People can only hear you when they are moving toward you, and they are not likely to when your words are pursuing them.” quote by Edwin H Friedman
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“Communication does not depend on syntax, or eloquence, or rhetoric, or articulation but on the emotional context in which the message is being heard. People can only hear you when they are moving toward you, and they are not likely to when your words are pursuing them.”

Edwin H Friedman

About This Quote

Source Lecture: The Art of Listening, 1995

Understanding depends on emotional context, not just language; listeners must be emotionally aligned to receive the message.

In simple terms: Emotion matters more than words.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate empathy before speaking.

Themes

communication emotion listening

Mood

empathetic thoughtful

Type

psychological practical

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • team meetings
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

Emotional intelligence contextual meaning

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you gauge your audience's emotional state?
  • What practices improve emotional alignment?
A Different Perspective

If emotions are misaligned, the message fails.

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