Communicating Quote by Edwin H Friedman
““A “new world” view of the brain suggests instead that communication is itself an emotional phenomenon that depends on three interrelational rather than “mental” variables: direction, distance, and anxiety. The capacity of those with whom you are communicating to hear you depends primarily on these three variables.””
About This Quote
Source Article: The Brain and Emotion, 2015
Communication is driven by emotional factors—direction, distance, and anxiety—rather than purely mental ones.
In simple terms: Emotion shapes how we convey and receive messages.
Key Takeaway
Mind these three variables when communicating.
Themes
communication
emotion
psychology
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
theoretical
insightful
When to use this quote
- team meetings
- counseling sessions
- public speaking
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
interpersonal dynamics
affect theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you adjust your communication style based on these variables?
- What role does anxiety play in your own conversations?
A Different Perspective
If anxiety is low, direction and distance may have less impact.
