Commonplace Quote by Edward Bulwer-Lytton, 1st Baron Lytton
“There is no tongue that flatters like a lover's; and yet, in the exaggeration of his feelings, flattery seems to him commonplace. Strange and prodigal exuberance, which soon exhausts itself by flowing!”
About This Quote
Source Book: Pelham; or the Adventures of a Gentleman, 1828
Lovers often exaggerate affection, making flattery seem ordinary, but such excess quickly fades.
In simple terms: Lover's praise feels natural but soon wears out.
Key Takeaway
Beware of over‑praise.
Themes
love
flattery
excess
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationships
- courtship
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
psychology
romantic idealism
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you value sincere compliments over lavish praise?
- How does exaggeration affect trust?
A Different Perspective
Excessive flattery can erode genuine connection.
