Child-abuse-survivor Quote by E. Sue Blume
““The adult incest survivor is likely to become involved in sexual relationships with older or more powerful people…There is little room for intimacy and much opportunity for abuse and sacrifice…The survivor may continue to be ‘child’, rather than an equal.””
About This Quote
Source Article: “The Adult Incest Survivor” by E. Sue Blume, Journal of Trauma & Dissociation, 2015
Survivors often repeat power‑imbalanced sexual dynamics, feeling infantilized and lacking true intimacy.
In simple terms: Survivors may stay in unequal, abusive relationships.
Key Takeaway
Recognize patterns, seek equitable connections.
Themes
trauma
power dynamics
intimacy
recovery
Mood
reflective
hopeful
cautious
Type
psychological
educational
inspirational
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- support groups
- dating
- workplace relationships
Key Concepts
attachment theory
repetition compulsion
boundary setting
Questions to Reflect On
- How do power imbalances affect your relationships?
- What steps can you take to establish equality?
A Different Perspective
Healing requires confronting deep‑seated beliefs about self‑worth.
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