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Care Quote by E. J. Holub

“I found out that it's not good to talk about my troubles. Eighty percent of the people who hear them don't care and the other twenty percent are glad you're having them.” quote by E. J. Holub
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“I found out that it's not good to talk about my troubles. Eighty percent of the people who hear them don't care and the other twenty percent are glad you're having them.”

E. J. Holub

About This Quote

Source Interview: Sports Talk, 1998

Sharing personal problems often yields little empathy; many ignore, some enjoy the drama.

In simple terms: People rarely care about your troubles.

Key Takeaway

Choose confidants wisely.

Themes

communication vulnerability empathy social dynamics

Mood

cautious reflective

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • therapy
  • team sports

Key Concepts

psychology of listening trust

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who truly supports you?
  • When is it safe to share?
A Different Perspective

Vulnerability can be exploited.

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