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Accompany Quote by Duane Elgin

“When a person's primary objective is to maximize material pleasures while minimizing discomforts, then life becomes a constant process of "pushing" (trying to push away from discomforts) and "grabbing" (trying to acquire or hold on to that which gives pleasure). With the loss of inner balance that…” quote by Duane Elgin
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“When a person's primary objective is to maximize material pleasures while minimizing discomforts, then life becomes a constant process of "pushing" (trying to push away from discomforts) and "grabbing" (trying to acquire or hold on to that which gives pleasure). With the loss of inner balance that accompanies a habitual "pushing and grabbing" approach to life, a deeper pain ensues-that of becoming aware of the ultimate unsatisfactoriness of the pleasure-seeking/pain-avoiding process itself.”

Duane Elgin

About This Quote

Source Book: The Healing Power of Water, Duane Elgin, 1992

Life dominated by seeking pleasure and avoiding pain creates endless striving and eventual dissatisfaction, revealing the futility of constant pursuit.

In simple terms: Constant pleasure‑seeking leads to imbalance and deeper pain.

Key Takeaway

Find balance, not endless pursuit.

Themes

balance pleasure pain mindfulness

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

philosophical motivational

When to use this quote

  • daily routine
  • consumer habits
  • stress management
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

hedonism attachment impermanence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does your pursuit of comfort affect your inner peace?
  • What can you let go of to reduce constant striving?
A Different Perspective

May ignore deeper needs and cause burnout.

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