Anxiety Quote by Douglas Coupland
“Telling people they look relaxed makes them look relaxed.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Media Psychology, 2010
Telling someone they look relaxed makes them actually relax.
In simple terms: Compliments on relaxation induce relaxation.
Key Takeaway
Use positive feedback to ease tension.
Themes
psychology
communication
behavior
Mood
calm
encouraging
Type
psychological
practical
When to use this quote
- customer service
- therapy
- team leadership
Key Concepts
social influence
feedback loops
relaxation techniques
Questions to Reflect On
- When does praise backfire?
- How to give effective relaxation cues?
A Different Perspective
May not work on all individuals.
