April Quote by Dorothy Parker
“Lady, lady, never start Conversation toward your heart; Keep your pretty words serene; Never murmur what you mean. Show yourself, by word and look, Swift and shallow as a brook. Be as cool and quick to go As a drop of April snow; Be as delicate and gay As a cherry flower in May. Lady, lady, never speak Of the tears that burn your cheek- She will never win him, whose Words had shown she feared to lose. Be you wise and never sad, You will get your lovely lad. Never serious be, nor true, And your wish will come to you- And if that makes you happy, kid, You'll be the first it ever did.”
About This Quote
Source Poem: "Lady, lady, never start Conversation..." (published in 1935, The New Yorker)
The speaker advises a woman to conceal her true feelings and present a light, carefree demeanor to attract a lover, suggesting that vulnerability will cause loss.
In simple terms: Hide emotions, act carefree to win love.
Key Takeaway
Present a playful, untroubled front.
Themes
courtship
appearance
self‑presentation
vulnerability
gender roles
Mood
playful
cautious
reflective
Type
advice
romantic
poetic
When to use this quote
- dating
- social gatherings
- first impressions
- online dating
- courtship rituals
Key Concepts
social performance
emotional concealment
romantic strategy
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you think genuine expression attracts lasting love?
- Can a façade sustain a relationship?
A Different Perspective
Authenticity may lead to deeper connections; deception can backfire.
