Child Quote by Dorothy Law Neite
““Children Learn What They Live. If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn. If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight. If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy. If a child lives with jealousy, he learns to feel guilty. If a child lives with impropriety, he learns to feel shame. If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient. If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence. If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate. If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice. If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith. If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself. If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns to find love in the world. With what is your child living?””
About This Quote
Source Children's book: Children Learn What They Live, 1975
Children internalize the emotional climate they experience; positive environments foster confidence, negative ones breed fear or shame.
In simple terms: Kids reflect their surroundings.
Create supportive, encouraging environments.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family counseling
- school programs
- parenting workshops
- community outreach
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What values are you modeling daily?
- How can you shift a negative atmosphere?
Changing entrenched family dynamics can be challenging.