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Child Quote by Dorothy Law Neite

“Children Learn What They Live. If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn. If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight. If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy. If a child lives with jealousy, he learns to feel guilty. If a child lives with impropriety, he learns to…” quote by Dorothy Law Neite
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““Children Learn What They Live. If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn. If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight. If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy. If a child lives with jealousy, he learns to feel guilty. If a child lives with impropriety, he learns to feel shame. If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient. If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence. If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate. If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice. If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith. If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself. If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, he learns to find love in the world. With what is your child living?””

Dorothy Law Neite

About This Quote

Source Children's book: Children Learn What They Live, 1975

Children internalize the emotional climate they experience; positive environments foster confidence, negative ones breed fear or shame.

In simple terms: Kids reflect their surroundings.

Key Takeaway

Create supportive, encouraging environments.

Themes

parenting psychology education emotional development environment

Mood

hopeful concerned

Type

advisory inspirational

When to use this quote

  • family counseling
  • school programs
  • parenting workshops
  • community outreach

Key Concepts

behavioral conditioning social learning emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What values are you modeling daily?
  • How can you shift a negative atmosphere?
A Different Perspective

Changing entrenched family dynamics can be challenging.

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