Attitude Quote by Dorothy H Cohen
“Parents must begin to discover their children as individuals of developing tastes and views and so help them be, and see, themselves as thinking, feeling people. It is far too easy for a middle-years child to absorb an over-simplified picture of himself as a sloppy, unreliable, careless, irresponsible, lazy creature and not much more--an attitude toward himself he will carry far beyond these years.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Parenting Perspectives, 1995
Parents should recognize children as unique individuals with evolving preferences, encouraging self‑reflection and confidence.
In simple terms: Treat kids as distinct thinkers and feelers.
Key Takeaway
Support children’s self‑discovery.
Themes
parenting
identity
self‑esteem
Mood
empathetic
thoughtful
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- family discussions
- school counseling
- parent‑child activities
Key Concepts
developmental psychology
individuality
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents balance guidance with autonomy?
- What signs show a child’s self‑concept is healthy?
A Different Perspective
Children may resist or misinterpret guidance.
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