Children Quote by Jean Piaget
““Every observer has noted that the younger the child, the less sense he has of his own ego. From the intellectual point of view, he does not distinguish between external and internal, subjective and objective. From the point of view of action, he yields to every suggestion, and if he does oppose to other people's wills — a certain negativism which has been called "the spirit of contradiction" — this only points to his real defenselessness against his surroundings. A strong personality can maintain itself without the help of this particular weapon. The adult and the older child have complete power over him. They impose their opinions and their wishes, and the child accepts them without knowing that he does so.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Language of Thought, Jean Piaget, 1970
Children lack a developed ego, so they cannot differentiate self from others and easily accept external influences.
In simple terms: Children are ego‑less and easily influenced.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and nurture independent thinking early.
Themes
development
ego
influence
authority
independence
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
philosophical
educational
When to use this quote
- parenting
- education
- leadership training
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
psychology
child development
socialization
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we foster autonomy in children?
- What role does ego play in personal growth?
A Different Perspective
Adults may dominate children, limiting their autonomy.
