Contests Quote by Donald Barthelme
“Will you be wanting to contest the divorce?" I asked Mrs. Davis. "I should think not," she said calmly, "although I suppose on of us should, for the fun of the thing. An uncontested divorce always seems to me contrary to the spirit of divorce.”
About This Quote
Source Short story: "The Balloon", 1975
Divorce should be contested to honor its transformative nature, not avoided for convenience.
In simple terms: Contest divorce to respect its purpose.
Key Takeaway
Embrace the process, not just the outcome.
Themes
relationships
conflict
tradition
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- legal proceedings
- family dynamics
Key Concepts
ethical deliberation
personal agency
Questions to Reflect On
- Why might people prefer an uncontested divorce?
- What does “spirit of divorce” imply?
A Different Perspective
Avoiding conflict may ignore deeper issues.
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