Hard things Quote by Don DeLillo
““Sometimes it was hard to say things. Things were so complicated. People might resent what you said. They might use your remarks against you. They might take you seriously and act upon your words, actually do something. They might not even hear you, which perhaps was the only thing worth hoping for. But it was more complicated than that. The sheer effort of speaking. Easier to stay apart, leave things as they are, avoid responsibility for reflecting the world and all its grave weight. Things that should be simple are always hard. But hard things are never easy.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: White Noise, 1985
The difficulty of honest communication, the fear of being misunderstood, and the temptation to avoid responsibility for shaping reality.
In simple terms: Speaking is hard; avoiding is easier.
Choose to speak despite fear.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- public discourse
- creative writing
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What truth are you avoiding?
- How does silence affect your world?
Words can be weaponized or ignored, limiting impact.