Apologetic Quote by Dinah Maria Murlock Craik
“To have loved and lost, either by that total disenchantment which leaves compassion as the sole substitute for love which can exist no more, or by the slow torment which is obliged to let go day by day all that constitutes the diviner part of love - namely, reverence, belief, and trust, yet clings desperately to the only thing left it, a long-suffering apologetic tenderness - this lot is probably the hardest any woman can have to bear.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Unnamed Literary Work, 1910
Loss of love can lead to deep disenchantment, leaving only compassion and a lingering, painful tenderness.
In simple terms: Love loss leaves compassion and lingering tenderness.
Key Takeaway
Embrace compassion, acknowledge lingering pain.
Themes
love
loss
compassion
grief
womanhood
emotional resilience
Mood
melancholic
reflective
empathetic
Type
literary
emotional
philosophical
When to use this quote
- personal heartbreak
- long‑term mourning
- emotional healing
- support groups
- creative writing
Key Concepts
attachment theory
existential sorrow
psychology of grief
Questions to Reflect On
- What does compassion replace when love is lost?
- How can one honor lingering tenderness without clinging?
A Different Perspective
Compassion may not fully replace love’s depth.
