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“Human love is directed to the other person for his own sake, spiritual love loves him for Christ's sake. Therefore, human love seeks direct contact with the other person; it loves him not as a free person but as one whom it binds to itself. It wants to gain, to capture by every means; it uses…” quote by Dietrich Bonhoeffer
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“Human love is directed to the other person for his own sake, spiritual love loves him for Christ's sake. Therefore, human love seeks direct contact with the other person; it loves him not as a free person but as one whom it binds to itself. It wants to gain, to capture by every means; it uses force. It desires to be irresistible, to rule.”

Dietrich Bonhoeffer

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Source Sermon: The Cost of Discipleship, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, 1937

Human love seeks personal gain and control, while spiritual love selflessly honors Christ, avoiding domination.

In simple terms: Human love wants control; spiritual love honors Christ.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize selfless love over possessive desire.

Themes

love spirituality control selflessness

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

theological inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • friendship
  • leadership
  • mentoring
  • community building

Key Concepts

theology ethics human nature

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you practice love without seeking control?
  • What does selfless love look like in daily life?
A Different Perspective

Spiritual love may be idealistic and hard to practice in flawed relationships.

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