Care Quote by Derren Brown
“The process of coming out is normally very disappointing. It's not that people react badly to it - they really don't care.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Process of Coming Out, 2015
People often feel disappointment when coming out because they expect strong reactions, but most simply ignore it, leaving the individual feeling let down by the lack of acknowledgment.
In simple terms: Coming out can feel disappointing due to indifference.
Key Takeaway
Seek supportive communities that validate your experience.
Themes
identity
acceptance
expectations
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
personal
social
When to use this quote
- coming out
- support groups
- family discussions
- online forums
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How does societal indifference affect personal confidence?
- What strategies help cope with lack of reaction?
A Different Perspective
Indifference can be as painful as overt rejection, making it hard to gauge progress.
![“When I dropped out [from a law school], everybody was disappointed... But I found that disappointing people is a good thing, because disapproval is freedom. Before that, I never realized how much I sought other people's approval. Once I figured that out, I was free to move on and seek the approval…” quote by Demetri Martin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/1b0/demetri-martin-511_approval_when-i-dropped-out-from-a-law-school-eve_2671287.jpg)
