Arms Quote by Debra Winger
“When I was younger I probably didn't understand something basic about tact, but I think it kept faint-hearted people at arm's distance and that's not such a bad thing, because life is short and I know the kind of people I want to work with.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Hollywood Reporter, 1995
Choosing partners based on personal values filters out superficial interactions, focusing on meaningful connections.
In simple terms: Select collaborators who align with your values.
Key Takeaway
Prioritize value‑aligned relationships.
Themes
career
relationships
values
boundaries
Mood
thoughtful
pragmatic
Type
advice
motivational
When to use this quote
- job interviews
- team projects
- networking events
Key Concepts
authenticity
social dynamics
personal integrity
Questions to Reflect On
- What core values guide your collaborations?
- How do you balance openness with selectivity?
A Different Perspective
Risk of excluding potentially beneficial but different perspectives.
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