Ability Quote by David Sheff
“Through Nic's drug addiction, I have learned that parents can bear almost anything…I shock myself with my ability to rationalize and tolerate things once unthinkable. The rationalizations escalate…It's only marijuana. He gets high only on weekends. At least he's not using hard drugs…”
About This Quote
Source Book: Beautiful Boy, David Sheff, 2010
Parents often rationalize extreme situations, minimizing harm while coping with addiction.
In simple terms: Parents can rationalize to cope with addiction.
Recognize and challenge harmful rationalizations.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family therapy
- support groups
- personal reflection
- education on substance use
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize when rationalization becomes denial?
- What steps can break the cycle of minimizing harm?
Rationalizations may prevent seeking professional help.