Acceptance Quote by David Richo
“Acceptance is approval, a word with a bad name in some psychologies. Yet it is perfectly normal to seek approval in childhood and throughout life. We require approval from those we respect. The kinship it creates lifts us to their level, a process referred to in self-psychology as transmuting internalization. Approval is a necessary component of self-esteem. It becomes a problem only when we give up our true self to find it. Then approval-seeking works against us.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Integral Psychology by David Richo, 1997
Seeking approval is natural, but losing one's authentic self to gain it harms self‑esteem.
In simple terms: Approval is normal but should not replace true self.
Key Takeaway
Balance approval with authenticity.
Themes
self‑esteem
authenticity
approval
psychology
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- childhood development
- workplace relationships
- personal growth
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
self‑psychology
transmuting internalization
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you distinguish healthy approval from dependence?
- What steps can protect your true self while seeking respect?
A Different Perspective
Over‑reliance on external validation can erode personal identity.
