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Life Quote by David Levithan

“I don't want to love her. I don't want to be in love. People take love's continuity for granted, just as they take their body's continuity for granted. They don't realize that the best thing about love is its regular presence. Once you can establish that, it's an added foundation to your life. But…” quote by David Levithan
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““I don't want to love her. I don't want to be in love. People take love's continuity for granted, just as they take their body's continuity for granted. They don't realize that the best thing about love is its regular presence. Once you can establish that, it's an added foundation to your life. But if you cannot have that regular presence, you only have the one foundation to support you, always.””

David Levithan

About This Quote

Source Book: Every Day by David Levithan, 2012

Love is often taken for granted like bodily continuity; recognizing its regular, supportive presence can become a stable foundation in life.

In simple terms: Love’s steady presence can be a life foundation.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate consistent, healthy love.

Themes

love relationships mindfulness

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • daily relationships
  • long‑term partnerships
  • self‑care routines

Key Concepts

attachment presence foundational stability

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you nurture regular love?
  • What foundations support you when love is absent?
A Different Perspective

Love isn’t always constant; expectations may clash with reality.

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