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Felt Betrayed Quote by David Levithan

“He thinks it's because he was born in the wrong body, but we want to whisper in his ears that many of us were born in the right bodies and still felt foreign inside them, felt betrayed. We completely misunderstood our bodies. We punished them, berated them, held them to an Olympian ideal that was…” quote by David Levithan
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““He thinks it's because he was born in the wrong body, but we want to whisper in his ears that many of us were born in the right bodies and still felt foreign inside them, felt betrayed. We completely misunderstood our bodies. We punished them, berated them, held them to an Olympian ideal that was deeply unfair to them. We loathed the hair in some places and the lack of hair in others. We wanted to everything to be tighter, stronger, harder, faster. We rarely recognized our own beauty unless someone else was recognizing it for us. We starved or we pushed or we hid or we paraded, and there was always another body we thought was better than ours. There was always something wrong, most time numerous things wrong. When we were healthy, we were ignorant. We could never be content within our own skin. Breathe, we want to tell Avery. Feel yourself breathe. Because that is as much a part of your body as anything else. Avery, we whisper, you are a marvel. And he is. He may never believe it, but he is.””

David Levithan

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Sun Is Also a Star” by David Levithan, 2019

The passage reflects on body dysphoria, societal pressures, and the need for self‑acceptance and affirmation.

In simple terms: We struggle with body image and need self‑love.

Key Takeaway

Practice self‑compassion and celebrate personal beauty.

Themes

self‑acceptance body image identity affirmation

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

inspirational personal

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • personal journaling
  • support groups

Key Concepts

gender dysphoria societal standards self‑esteem

Questions to Reflect On

  • What daily practices help you appreciate your body?
  • How can you support others facing similar struggles?
A Different Perspective

Self‑acceptance can be hindered by external criticism.

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