Age Quote by David Elkind
“Taking the child's point of view demands good will, time, and effort on the part of parents. The child is the clear beneficiary. Parents who make the effort to understand their children's point of view are likely to treat children fairly and in an age-appropriate manner.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Whole-Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, 2011
Understanding a child’s perspective requires patience and effort, leading to fair, age‑appropriate parenting.
In simple terms: Parents need time and will to see from a child’s view.
Practice active listening with children.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conversations
- discipline strategies
- education planning
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you make space for a child’s viewpoint daily?
- What barriers prevent you from fully listening?
Parents may struggle with time constraints or personal biases.