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Caring Quote by David Brooks

“Why, over the past two decades, have we seen this epidemic of loneliness and meanness, this breakdown in the social fabric? We can all point to some contributing factors: social media, widening inequality, declining participation in community life, declining church attendance, rising populism and…” quote by David Brooks
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““Why, over the past two decades, have we seen this epidemic of loneliness and meanness, this breakdown in the social fabric? We can all point to some contributing factors: social media, widening inequality, declining participation in community life, declining church attendance, rising populism and bigotry, vicious demagoguery from our media and political elites. I agree that these factors have all contributed to produce what we are enduring. But as the years have gone by, I have increasingly fixated on what I see as a deeper cause of our social and relational crisis. Our problem, I believe, is fundamentally moral. As a society, we have failed to teach the skills and cultivate the inclination to treat each other with kindness, generosity, and respect. I realize the phrase “moral formation” may sound stuffy and archaic, but moral formation is really about three simple, practical things. First, it is about helping people learn how to restrain their selfishness and incline their heart to care more about others. Second, it’s about helping people find a purpose, so their life has stability, direction, and meaning. Third, it’s about teaching the basic social and emotional skills so you can be kind and considerate to the people around you.””

David Brooks

About This Quote

Source Book: The Road to Character, 2015

The author claims that modern social decay stems from a moral failure: lack of kindness, purpose, and social skills, despite many external factors, urging moral formation to rebuild community.

In simple terms: Moral failure underlies social breakdown despite external issues.

Key Takeaway

Teach kindness, purpose, and social skills.

Themes

society morality community loneliness inequality media politics

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

sociological motivational

When to use this quote

  • schools
  • family gatherings
  • faith groups
  • workplaces
  • online communities

Key Concepts

moral formation social capital character education

Questions to Reflect On

  • What practical steps can foster moral formation today?
  • How can institutions prioritize kindness and purpose?
A Different Perspective

Implementation may be hindered by entrenched individualism.

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