Attention Quote by Daniel Goleman

“Compassion begins with attention.”

Daniel Goleman

About This Quote

Source Book: Emotional Intelligence, 1995

Compassion starts when we truly notice others’ suffering.

In simple terms: Notice others to feel compassion.

Key Takeaway

Observe before you act compassionately.

Themes

compassion awareness empathy

Mood

reflective inspirational

Type

philosophical motivational

When to use this quote

counseling
education
healthcare
community work

Key Concepts

mindfulness emotional intelligence attention

Questions to Reflect On

How can we turn attention into compassionate action?
What practices improve noticing others?

A Different Perspective

Attention alone may not lead to action without empathy.

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