Certain Quote by Dan Savage
“My husband Terry and I are mostly monogamous. . . . There are times — certain set and limited circumstances — when it is permissible for us to have sex with others.”
About This Quote
Source Column: "Savage Love", 2010
Monogamy can be flexible when partners agree on limited, consensual exceptions.
In simple terms: Flexible monogamy with consent.
Key Takeaway
Communicate boundaries for consensual openness.
Themes
relationships
consent
flexibility
Mood
thoughtful
open
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- polyamorous agreements
- sexual health discussions
Key Concepts
ethical non‑monogamy
communication
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you ensure emotional safety in open agreements?
- What boundaries protect trust?
A Different Perspective
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