Action Quote by Dalai Lama
“The simple recognition that everyone else wants to be happy and not to suffer, just as I do, serves as a constant reminder against selfishness and partiality. It reminds us there is little to be gained from being kind and generous while hoping to win something in return. Actions motivated by a desire to earn a good name for ourselves are still selfish, even if they appear to be acts of kindness.”
About This Quote
Source Speech: Public talk on compassion, 2010, Dalai Lama addressing altruism
He stresses that recognizing others' desire for happiness counters selfishness, and that self‑serving kindness is still selfish
In simple terms: Seeing others' wish for happiness reduces selfishness
True compassion is selfless, not self‑serving
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- community service
- personal growth
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we differentiate genuine altruism from self‑interest?
- What practices nurture truly selfless behavior?
May underestimate complexity of motivations behind charitable acts