Guest Quote by Dada Bhagwan
““What do worldly (non Self-realised) people do? They feel uneasy the moment a guest arrives. The husband tells his wife, 'you just show that you are upset, so then he will leave!' You get upset or even if you verbally abuse him, the guest will not leave. How can he when it was meant to happen [it is decided]? By getting upset, you are gathering stock (of karma) for the next life, you’ll need something to spend in your next life [won’t you]?””
About This Quote
Source Talk: Spiritual Guidance, 1990
Non‑realised people get uneasy with guests; upset creates karma for future lives.
In simple terms: Unease creates future karma.
Key Takeaway
Stay calm with guests.
Themes
karma
guest etiquette
spirituality
Mood
contemplative
spiritual
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- hospitality
- family visits
- social gatherings
Key Concepts
non‑attachment
mindfulness
life cycles
Questions to Reflect On
- How does calmness affect karma?
- What practices help stay composed?
A Different Perspective
Calmness may be hard for anxious hosts.
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