Giving Quote by D. H. Lawrence
“That's just what a woman is. She thinks she knows what's good for a man, and she's going to see he gets it; and no matter if he's starving, he may sit and whistle for what he needs, while she's got him, and is giving him what's good for him.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Women in Love, 1920
The quote reflects a patronizing view of women as controlling men’s needs, highlighting gender power dynamics.
In simple terms: It suggests women think they know what’s best for men, even when men are suffering.
Question assumptions about gender roles and control.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage
- family decisions
- workplace dynamics
- health crises
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do power imbalances affect mutual care?
- What alternative models of partnership exist?
It simplifies complex relationships to a single stereotype.