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Giving Quote by D. H. Lawrence

“That's just what a woman is. She thinks she knows what's good for a man, and she's going to see he gets it; and no matter if he's starving, he may sit and whistle for what he needs, while she's got him, and is giving him what's good for him.” quote by D. H. Lawrence
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“That's just what a woman is. She thinks she knows what's good for a man, and she's going to see he gets it; and no matter if he's starving, he may sit and whistle for what he needs, while she's got him, and is giving him what's good for him.”

D. H. Lawrence

About This Quote

Source Novel: Women in Love, 1920

The quote reflects a patronizing view of women as controlling men’s needs, highlighting gender power dynamics.

In simple terms: It suggests women think they know what’s best for men, even when men are suffering.

Key Takeaway

Question assumptions about gender roles and control.

Themes

gender power relationships control

Mood

critical reflective empathetic

Type

sociological psychological

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • family decisions
  • workplace dynamics
  • health crises

Key Concepts

patriarchy masculinity feminine agency dependency

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do power imbalances affect mutual care?
  • What alternative models of partnership exist?
A Different Perspective

It simplifies complex relationships to a single stereotype.

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