Good thing Quote by D.E. Stevenson
““Tim wants to know what on earth it is all about and why on earth Grace has come all the way to Westburgh to tell me she is going to have a baby, when a letter would have done equally well. Fortunately, Grace is staying in bed for breakfast, so Tim’s indignation can be worked off thoroughly before he meets his guest. Tim goes on to say Grace is neurotic that’s what it is, and it will be a good thing for her to have children. Women with children have no time to be neurotic – Tim hopes that Grace will have twins.””
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Unexpected Guest” by D.E. Stevenson, 1932
Tim resents Grace’s dramatic news about pregnancy, preferring a simple letter, yet he rationalizes her neuroticism as a benefit of motherhood.
In simple terms: Tim dislikes the drama, sees motherhood as fixing neuroticism.
Key Takeaway
Consider empathy before judging others’ choices.
Themes
communication
gender roles
expectations
judgment
Mood
irritated
skeptical
Type
narrative
social commentary
When to use this quote
- marriage discussions
- parenting plans
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
masculine identity
social norms
family dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we assume motherhood solves personal issues?
- How can we better support unexpected news?
A Different Perspective
Tim’s view reflects gender bias and lack of listening.
