Ugly Quote by Colette
““They looked at each other in open hostility—she, leaning on her elbow in a flurry of frills and lace; he, sitting side-saddle on the edge of the bed. He was thinking ‘Who’s she to talk of any wrinkles I may have one day?’ and she ‘Why is he so ugly when he laughs?—he who’s the very picture of beauty!’ She thought for a moment, then finished aloud: “It’s because you look so ill-natured when you’re joking. You never laugh except unkindly—ᴀᴛ people, and that makes you ugly. You’re often ugly.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Vagabond by Colette, 1910
A couple’s mutual contempt is expressed through harsh judgments about appearance and character, revealing deeper insecurity and emotional distance.
In simple terms: They insult each other’s looks and kindness, exposing hurt feelings.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how criticism damages intimacy.
Themes
relationships
insecurity
communication
Mood
tension
sadness
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- friendship conflicts
- family gatherings
Key Concepts
self-esteem
projection
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you respond when criticized?
- What can you say to soften criticism?
A Different Perspective
Harsh words can deepen rifts more than intended.
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