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Anger Quote by Clarissa Pinkola Estes

“How does one know if she has forgiven? You tend to feel sorrow over the circumstance instead of rage, you tend to feel sorry for the person rather than angry with him. You tend to have nothing left to say about it all.” quote by Clarissa Pinkola Estes
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“How does one know if she has forgiven? You tend to feel sorrow over the circumstance instead of rage, you tend to feel sorry for the person rather than angry with him. You tend to have nothing left to say about it all.”

Clarissa Pinkola Estes

About This Quote

Source Book: Women Who Run With the Wolves, 1992

Forgiveness is recognized by a shift from anger to sorrow and empathy, leaving no words left to argue.

In simple terms: Forgiveness replaces rage with sorrow and empathy.

Key Takeaway

Notice the emotional shift toward empathy.

Themes

forgiveness empathy inner peace

Mood

reflective calm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • personal healing
  • relationship repair

Key Concepts

psychology spiritual growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • What feelings arise when you move from anger to sorrow?
  • How can you cultivate empathy toward the offender?
A Different Perspective

Forgiveness may be incomplete if underlying issues remain.

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