Big deal Quote by Christina Baker Kline
““Lori says, “Look at this. Your SATs are in the 600s. And you have a 3.8 average this semester. That’s really good.” “It’s an easy school.” “No, it isn’t.” “It’s not that big a deal.” “It is a big deal, actually. These are applying-to-college stats. Have you thought about that?” “No.” “Why not?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Language of Flowers, 2015
Shows a parent’s dismissive response to a child’s academic success, underscoring the need for encouragement and future planning.
In simple terms: Parents should recognize and nurture academic achievements.
Key Takeaway
Encourage and discuss future goals.
Themes
parenting
education
expectations
Mood
concerned
thoughtful
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conversation
- college preparation
- self‑esteem
Key Concepts
academic pressure
future planning
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents balance encouragement with realistic expectations?
- What conversations should follow academic praise?
A Different Perspective
Dismissal can undermine confidence.
