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Attention Quote by Charles Lamb

“Ceremony is an invention to take off the uneasy feeling which we derive from knowing ourselves to be less the object of love and esteem with a fellow-creature than some other person is. It endeavours to make up, by superior attentions in little points, for that invidious preference which it is…” quote by Charles Lamb
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“Ceremony is an invention to take off the uneasy feeling which we derive from knowing ourselves to be less the object of love and esteem with a fellow-creature than some other person is. It endeavours to make up, by superior attentions in little points, for that invidious preference which it is forced to deny in the greater.”

Charles Lamb

About This Quote

Source Essay: Essays of Elia, 1823

Ceremonies mask our insecurity about being less loved than others, using small attentions to compensate for perceived favoritism.

In simple terms: Ceremonies hide insecurity about love.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and address deeper self‑esteem issues.

Themes

self‑esteem social rituals insecurity comparison

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • weddings
  • team meetings
  • family gatherings
  • public speeches

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do rituals affect your self‑worth?
  • What authentic actions could replace them?
A Different Perspective

Ceremonies can’t replace genuine connection.

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