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Care Quote by Charles Dickens

“Such a number of nights,' said the girl, with a touch of woman's tenderness, which communicated something like sweetness of tone, even to her voice; 'such a number of nights as I've been patient with you, nursing and caring for you, as if you had been a child: and this the first that I've seen you…” quote by Charles Dickens
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““Such a number of nights,' said the girl, with a touch of woman's tenderness, which communicated something like sweetness of tone, even to her voice; 'such a number of nights as I've been patient with you, nursing and caring for you, as if you had been a child: and this the first that I've seen you like yourself; you wouldn't have served me as you did just now, if you'd thought of that, would you? Come, come; say you wouldn't.””

Charles Dickens

About This Quote

Source Novel: Great Expectations by Charles Dickens, 1861

A caregiver reflects on the long, tender patience required to nurture someone until they become independent, questioning whether they would have acted the same without that bond.

In simple terms: Patience nurtures growth; independence follows.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and value the patience you give others.

Themes

care patience growth independence relationships

Mood

reflective empathetic thoughtful

Type

literary philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • mentorship
  • long‑term projects
  • personal development
  • healing relationships

Key Concepts

Empathy development dependency

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does patience change a relationship?
  • When might letting go be healthier?
A Different Perspective

The quote assumes the caregiver’s influence is always positive, which may not hold in all dynamics.

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