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Dance Quote by Charles Dickens

“Do go, my dear friend — I don’t mean to ask her to marry, but to ask her to dance. — Never mind the looks of the thing. It will make her happy; and what does it cost you? Ah, my dear fellow! take this counsel: always dance with the old ladies — always dance with the governesses. It is a comfort to…” quote by Charles Dickens
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““Do go, my dear friend — I don’t mean to ask her to marry, but to ask her to dance. — Never mind the looks of the thing. It will make her happy; and what does it cost you? Ah, my dear fellow! take this counsel: always dance with the old ladies — always dance with the governesses. It is a comfort to the poor things when they get up in their garret that somebody has had mercy on them. And such a handsome fellow as YOU too!””

Charles Dickens

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Pickwick Papers by Charles Dickens, 1836

Encourages dancing with older women as a gentle, compassionate act that brings joy to them and humility to the dancer.

In simple terms: Dance with older women to bring them joy and humility.

Key Takeaway

Offer kindness through simple gestures.

Themes

compassion humility social grace

Mood

warm reflective

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • social gatherings
  • care homes
  • community events
  • personal interactions

Key Concepts

empathy social etiquette intergenerational connection

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can small acts of kindness change social dynamics?
  • What does dancing symbolize in relationships?
A Different Perspective

May be seen as patronizing if not sincere.

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