Agree Quote by Charles Caleb Colton
“We are more inclined to hate one another for points on which we differ, than to love one another for points on which we agree. The reason perhaps is this: when we find others that agree with us, we seldom trouble ourselves to confirm that agreement; but when we chance on those who differ from us, we are zealous both to convince and to convert them. Our pride is hurt by the failure, and disappointed pride engenders hatred.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Miscellanies, Charles Caleb Colton, 1820
People more readily defend differences than celebrate agreements, leading to pride‑driven hostility.
In simple terms: We hate more than we love differences.
Key Takeaway
Seek common ground before defending differences.
Themes
pride
conflict
agreement
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- political debate
- family arguments
- online forums
- workplace meetings
Key Concepts
cognitive bias
social identity
Questions to Reflect On
- What shared values can you highlight?
- How does pride shape your reactions?
A Different Perspective
Agreement can be superficial and unexamined.
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